> Before anyone says "tak masuk syurga bagi orang yang putuskan silaturahim," silaturahim only applies to family relationships/kinship. (You can refer to Sahih al-Bukhari 5984.)
> Before anyone says "tak masuk syurga bagi orang yang putuskan silaturahim," silaturahim only applies to family relationships/kinship. (You can refer to Sahih al-Bukhari 5984.)
> The word "Rahim" literally means womb, so it refers strictly to binding the ties of the womb. Maintaining relationships with friends or networking isn't silaturahim. That's actually called Silatul-Ukhuwah (bonds of brotherhood) or Silatun-Nas (bonds with people).
Exactly. Also, I researched tadi:
1. Some family members/relatives can be troublemakers.
2. Kalau kita kurangkan contact pun, tak bermaksud silaturrahim terputus.
3. Yang bahaya/salahnya cuma bila ada total spiteful severance (putus hubungan cara benci, menghina, dendam, tolak semua bentuk berdamai).
So offer civility: bagi salam kalau terjumpa, jawab bila perlu, doa for their wellbeing, jangan doa orang tu ditimpa keburukan/sakit.
Tak perlu rapat, tapi jangan bermusuh (shahna').
> The word "Rahim" literally means womb, so it refers strictly to binding the ties of the womb. Maintaining relationships with friends or networking isn't silaturahim. That's actually called Silatul-Ukhuwah (bonds of brotherhood) or Silatun-Nas (bonds with people).
Exactly. Also, I researched tadi:
1. Some family members/relatives can be troublemakers.
2. Kalau kita kurangkan contact pun, tak bermaksud silaturrahim terputus.
3. Yang bahaya/salahnya cuma bila ada total spiteful severance (putus hubungan cara benci, menghina, dendam, tolak semua bentuk berdamai).
So offer civility: bagi salam kalau terjumpa, jawab bila perlu, doa for their wellbeing, jangan doa orang tu ditimpa keburukan/sakit.
Tak perlu rapat, tapi jangan bermusuh (shahna').