> If people like to talk about something, then they shouldn't talk about it?🤔 thats sad. Everyone should be able to express their interests, hence why they need to find someone 'sekufu' for them to sh
> If people like to talk about something, then they shouldn't talk about it?🤔 thats sad. Everyone should be able to express their interests, hence why they need to find someone 'sekufu' for them to share with. Even about material stuff. Maybe with people yang 'tak' sekufu, they can talk about other stuff not pertaining to materials. So now they can categorize which friend they can talk about materialistic stuff, & which friends they should not. Eh, boleh paham tak?Cam berbelit😅
Don't worry, I get you.
Cumanya buka cerita pasal nikmat/rezeki diri ni, jarang ada happy ending:
1. Family rapat boleh iri hati - it's very common.
2. Orang sekufu/lagi kaya pun boleh terasa diam-diam, or jadi competitive.
Actually, kalau kita dapat travel/beli emas/barang branded, kenapa orang lain perlu tahu tu semua? Takkan kalau orang lain tak tahu, kita tak happy? (If yes, I rasa kita dah mendekati riak.)
So I rasa isu ni bukan salah orang tak sekufu. More like sharing tak bertempat.
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> nisya_art92
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> What if dia sharing ke tempat yang betul? Which is only to people yang sekufu and yang genuinely boleh terima her sharing? Haha maybe I'm being too optimist here.
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> Tapi yela, hati orang kita tak tahu. Kalau nak elak orang lain daripada rasa iri hati, best policy would be to keep things to yourself.
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Haha, IMHO, if she did share to the correct persons (who could genuinely accept what she shared), I don't think her complaint would have materialized.
Instead, her conclusion is that orang lain salah, sebab 'tak sekufu'. Dia sendiri tak salah.
I don't think that's the right conclusion, or mindset. Kita semua kena know when/when not to discuss nikmat/rezeki kita. Biasanya orang tak akan bawa mulut pasal what we have, kecuali kalau kita yang buka mulut dulu.
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> Hmm that's fair. Oh well then, probably with time and experience she will learn
Don't worry, I get you.
Cumanya buka cerita pasal nikmat/rezeki diri ni, jarang ada happy ending:
1. Family rapat boleh iri hati - it's very common.
2. Orang sekufu/lagi kaya pun boleh terasa diam-diam, or jadi competitive.
Actually, kalau kita dapat travel/beli emas/barang branded, kenapa orang lain perlu tahu tu semua? Takkan kalau orang lain tak tahu, kita tak happy? (If yes, I rasa kita dah mendekati riak.)
So I rasa isu ni bukan salah orang tak sekufu. More like sharing tak bertempat.
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> nisya_art92
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> What if dia sharing ke tempat yang betul? Which is only to people yang sekufu and yang genuinely boleh terima her sharing? Haha maybe I'm being too optimist here.
>
> Tapi yela, hati orang kita tak tahu. Kalau nak elak orang lain daripada rasa iri hati, best policy would be to keep things to yourself.
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Haha, IMHO, if she did share to the correct persons (who could genuinely accept what she shared), I don't think her complaint would have materialized.
Instead, her conclusion is that orang lain salah, sebab 'tak sekufu'. Dia sendiri tak salah.
I don't think that's the right conclusion, or mindset. Kita semua kena know when/when not to discuss nikmat/rezeki kita. Biasanya orang tak akan bawa mulut pasal what we have, kecuali kalau kita yang buka mulut dulu.
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> Hmm that's fair. Oh well then, probably with time and experience she will learn